by Rafael Solece
There is something to be said about
sharing yourself with someone. GET YOUR MIND OUT OF THE GUTTER BOYS
AND GIRLS! I am not talking about sex. I am talking about talking.
More specifically I am talking about the act of sharing your most
intimate thoughts and feelings with someone. Not just anyone, but
someone special.
Granted that is one of the most
uncomfortable feelings in the world. Telling someone, anyone, your
secretes. Especially someone you are attracted to or someone you are
dating or in a relationship with. It seems to me that where we seem
to be able to tell our friends all of the gory details of our lives;
our perverse sexual fantasies and our deepest insecurities, when
it comes to sharing those things with the people who matter most we
just don't have the nerve.
And that is kind of pathetic when you think
about it.
I mean how in the world do we expect to
cultivate long lasting relationships if we do not feel comfortable
enough to go at it RAW!
